Hello Warriors,
I stumbled across this site. My wife was recently diagnosed, not sure how I can help her emotionally. Some days are good and others I am unsure if she’s upset at me or the situation. Thanks for listening.
Welcome to the group. it's definitely not you she's upset with. The cancer journey is a roller-coaster. A lot of uncertainties and unanswered questions from doctors- it becomes frustrating. I would say be patient, give reassurance and just listen.Â
@wokie I agree with Wokie! James, sometimes people facing the biggest hardship of their life can be emotionally aching and the best thing you can do is continue to be selfless and put her first. When you face a tough time... she will do everything to be there for you as well. Be strong. Everyone in this process is hurting.
 ?James, I agree with Wokie. It’s not you. Your wife is probably trying to process all of this and still trying to be the woman she was before all this. The adjustment takes time. Be patient ?Â
Yea definitely it’s a whole new journey and a lot of uncertainties. Just continue to be her husband! Remind her of your love for her and the memories you all have created. Push dates and pick out outfits you would love to see her in.  Patience and support is a huge key.Â
